When the Moon is at her darkest, she turns our energy INwards to reflect

NEW MOON in Libra happened yesterday on the 10/10, and it’s timing feels significant for me – because after reconnecting, we are reorganizing and redefining our relationship, and the energy feels different – because we’ve both learned a lot about ourselves, and are relating so much better because of it.

According to numerology (1) represents new beginnings (0) represents infinite potential, and together (10) represents completion and renewal. So, this energy creates a threshold, where an old cycle finishes, and a new path begins.

Libra themes are about BALANCE, so she was asking …

How do you love, attach and connect with others?

According to star gazers Venus, Saturn, Uranus, Pluto and Neptune are all in retrograde at the same time, so this energy will be shining a light on the structure of our relationships and how we interact with each other.

Venus is the planet of LOVE, but she’s in retrograde and moving through Scorpio, so old attachments, identities, and relationships may have been resurfacing, to be seen with more clarity. Old stories, desires, energetic agreements, uncomfortable truths, fears, and unresolved patterns may have began revealing themselves, to be confronted with more honesty.

• What wants to be witnessed?
• What wants to be processed?
• What wants to be completed?
• What wants to be released?
• What wants to be transmuted?
• What wants to be integrated?
• What wants to be transformed?

Asking ourselves the right questions is how we work with planetary energies …

• Where do I feel out of balance?
• What is my honest truth today?
• How do I compromise my needs for others, and why?
• Do my closest connections feel mutually respectful?
• What old relational patterns am I ready to restructure?
• Can I honour my own path without fearing disapproval of others?

Insight arrives through heart (emotions), mind (thoughts), and spirit (energy) – because the relief of release will ripple through every part of our being.

• Emotions surface when a deeply held truth or a boundary is acknowledged
• Clarity of mind can reframe our entire perspective in an instant
• Alignment can occur without needing words to explain it

According to star gazers NOW is the time …

• for the relationship we haven’t always fully understood
• for the desire we’ve been afraid to name
• for the pattern we can feel ourselves outgrowing
• for the part inside us that’s been whispering

Accept what IS, let go of what was, and have faith in what will BE✨

In the past my reactions often triggered his defences, and his defences triggered my flight response → I’ve been learning how to become more conscious of my sensitivities, and emotionally regulate – so I can respond to what triggers a reaction within me.

In the past his reactions often triggered my defences, and my defences triggered his fight response → he’s been learning how to become more conscious of himself, and emotionally regulate – so he can respond to what triggers a reaction within him.

Recently, I’ve been asking my SELF …

Why do some of us grow together, and others grow apart?

I acknowledge that every single one of us are learning and growing IN LOVE, but not everyone can grow together in relationship. Some of us need to detach, so we can learn and grow apart before we can experience a healthier relationship together. It doesn’t matter how we learn and grow, so long as we are learning and growing, but judgement can hinder our growth, and that’s something we can all be guilty of – my SELF included.

The key to ALL of our healing is the willingness to understand each other 💖