Me too …
The how, why and when our friendship ended caused me alot of heart hurt. Suffering exaggerated and prolonged by her continued connection with my family & friends …
But just as some relationships come to an end … so do some friendships …
Seasons ♡ Reasons ♡ Life times ♡
I learned many valuable lessons from the unfortunate experience …
I learned how to stand in MY truth, regardless of what other people thought or felt about me.
I learned how to drop the masks and live with more integrity, no matter how uncomfortable it felt.
I learned how to be more authentic in my interactions, regardless of how much it upset the status quo.
But most importantly I learned how to face up to my own BULL SHIT !!!
I may have lost her friendship but I gained so much more in my life because I now see and experience life very differently …
I believe that sometimes we outgrow people, and that’s not only OK, its often necessary.
I think the role people play in our lives needs to change as we do.
I understand that the universe connects and disconnects us on purpose.
I accept that some changes are often not wanted but are always needed.
I believe conflict and tensions occur when we refuse to let go and move on.
I trust the process of change and growth … even though at times I may not always like or want it ♡