Something to tickle the funny bone, but in all seriousness. Do you take the time to make love with yourself (or) are you relying on your partner to satisfy your desires ? Do you enjoy loving your own body (or) do you feel shame or sadness when you pleasure yourself ?

Has orgasm ever brought you to tears ?
Is orgasm out of your reach ?
Do you orgasm too quickly
Have you ever wondered why ?

I love these kinda questions because I support SELF LOVE on all levels, but I haven’t talked about mindful masturbation in a while.

In all honesty, it was the last thing on my mind during our family ordeal. There was either little interest or opportunity to mindfully focus on pleasure, which consequently had a dramatic impact upon my usually active libido.

Something I struggled with at times because as strange as it may sound to some, I grieved the loss of my sex drive. But, ironically, it was during the drought, I learned to distinguish the difference between sexual and sacred energy.

Mindful masturbation is all about the intention behind the practice. Like sex, we are either indulging with intent to relieve our tensions (or) we are opening up to experience the love ❤

I often fiddle with purpose 🤣🤣🤣

Masturbating mindfully focuses my attention on the energy flow within my body.

During orgasm I notice where energy flows and circulates, which helps me to identify any chakras that are blocked. I notice how energy vibrates, pulsates and flows throughout my body. I notice when I’m in a self loving space, my body opens and the energy flows freely through all my chakra centres.

It’s only then, I experience kundalini energy.

“According to Tantra, kundalini energy rests like a coiled serpent at the base of the spine. When this dormant energy flows freely upward through the seven chakras and leads to an expanded state of consciousness, it’s known as a kundalini awakening”

It’s my understanding, that this is the sacred energy that taps into the divine flow, enabling us to co-create our kinda magic with Universe.

And THAT’S what I want to experience 🌟