According to the star gazers Gemini rules communication in all its forms: our ideas, writing, learning, conversations, networking, social media, marketing, and the stories we are telling ourselves.

New Moons call us IN to reflect, and this one’s asking us – are we repeating the same conversations instead of creating the change we are here to make?

For me, its about reclaiming the narrative, and making different choices because in the past I’ve exhausted myself trying to understand, and wanting to be understood has drained the energy that I need to create.

I acknowledge – a need for validation is the root cause of our people pleasing behaviours, and although I’ve often challenged this about my self, I’m still guilty of tolerating bad manners, disrespect and shitty attitudes because I do understand why people are who they are, but I’m learning how to be discerning in my choices

DISCERNMENT is having insight – to see things clearly, and perceive the truth without getting lost in the confusion of conflicting realities, so we can read the true character, and motives of people

As they say … when someone shows you who they are, then BELIEVE them.

In astrology, New Moons are associated with fresh starts, and those first steps towards our future goals, so NOW is a powerful time to ask ourselves.

✨ What do I want to create next?

✨ What new chapter is beginning?

✨ What ideas deserve more attention?

If you are wishing something was different, if you want something to change, and if you are ready for a new experience, then use this energy to consciously choose a story that supports where you want to go, instead of where you’ve been, by noticing the stories you are telling yourself about love, money and the future.

Gemini reminds us that our words become thoughts – thoughts become beliefs – beliefs become actions – and our actions create the experiences we are choosing to have.

This New Moon is asking us …

Who were you before the expectations, responsibilities, fears, and distractions pulled you away from yourself?

✨️What story are you rewriting?

✨️What truth are you afraid to speak?

✨️What part of you wants to be heard?

For me, I’m no longer editing myself to keep others comfortable, because I have no control how others perceive my truth … and that’s OK.

Every New Moon offers us an opportunity to plant the seeds of our intentions, that are rooted in authenticity, rather than a sense of obligation, but to stand more confidently in our truth, we need to have the courage to say NO !!!

Saying NO will not please others …

If you want to be authentic, then be prepared to be disliked, and if you want to enforce boundaries, then be prepared to be seen as unfriendly and/or unloving, but that doesn’t mean it’s true.

A sacred NO is a powerful, and an intentional boundary that protects our energy, honours our truth, respects our values, and maintains our health and well being, It’s a deliberate refusal that then allows us to say YES, to what we truly want to experience.

Its a shift that creates change 🌀✨️